Men don’t get married because you are a favorite
I married my first girlfriend.
Seeing this message from Ding Fan on my mobile phone surprised me and asked him quickly: No, your kid was n’t just in love, he just poured his bitter tears to me, why is he here again?Married?
You don’t know, there is a girl in my hometown, 22 years old this year.
It was settled after being introduced.
Married after dating for one and a half months.
Ding Fanzhong sent me again.
I’m marveled at it, and it’s too fast, can I order a lifetime for a month and a half?
But marveling, marrying, they still have to say a few words of blessing.
So I teased him: You guy is an old cow who eats tender cows, so you treat other girls very much, have more children, and I will admit a son.
In the end, he didn’t forget to let him find a chance to tell me about his efficient love and marriage process.
When thinking of Ding Fan’s office, a colleague pulled him to show his hand, solemnly told him that there will be peach blossoms in his life in the next ten years.
We smiled and bent over, dare to love this kid with such good luck.
But with a smile, Ding Fan’s emotional history can really be described as rugged and bumpy, almost driving him to the edge of despair.
Ding Fan is very handsome and has been an armed policeman, so from appearance to spirit, it is very attractive.
He also has the advantage that he loves cleanliness, and ordinary girls do not necessarily have his concern for hygiene. Shoes are always as neat and tidy as new ones. Leather shoes are always shiny, and there is a sense of simplicity and refinement on his body.
Ding Fan’s first girlfriend engaged in propaganda work in an enterprise.
The little girl has a “baby fat” face, and her figure is quite standard. In Ding Fan’s words, it is called “the big place is big, the small place is small”.
At that time, they felt like children playing house. When they were good, they wanted to wear a pair of pants, and they panicked when they didn’t see them for a second.Who.
Their relationship ended after a year of maintenance because the girl resigned and went to another city.
The first girlfriend was Ding Fan’s “sexual enlightenment”. She called Ding Fan to her place the day before she left.
In the dark room with the lights off, she slowly took off her clothes and pulled Ding Fan’s hand over her.
Ding Fan touched her sexy clavicle and plump breasts, then moved her hand to the girl’s lower body, and her body immediately reacted.
He thought he was going to say goodbye to the virgin era tonight and was very nervous.
But the girl didn’t give him this opportunity, whispered and begged him not to force her to do what she didn’t want to do, she had to leave her husband for the first time.
Maybe she knew that she couldn’t be her husband, and Ding Fan didn’t insist any more. The two were slept on a single steel bed for one night without any problems.
After Ding Fan talked about this, every male colleague gave him a thumbs up, praising him that he would try to keep Liuxia Huibi down.
Second girlfriend The second girlfriend was also introduced, a company employee, cheerful, and can talk to anyone, of course, looks good, and figure is “awesome.”
Although she often brought the dirty clothes on the top and let him wash them, and her long nails made him look at goose bumps, and joked with Ding Fan’s colleague, Ding Fan still liked her very much, and evenI wanted to marry her, and once called my mom over.
The second girlfriend finally turned Ding Fan into a man. It was the girl ‘s birthday. Ding Fan withdrew her salary in advance, bought her a gift, and invited her to eat Western food.
The candlelight swayed, and the girl’s eyes were full of teasing and desire, making Ding Fan tasteless, and only wanted to eat her meat.
After meals, Ding Fan took her to the hotel room that was opened early. After entering, she wanted to enter the actual combat stage.
The girl knew about Ding Fanjie’s fetishism, went to the bathroom, carefully washed her body, wrapped in a towel, wrapped her hair, and walked out with bare feet, her eyes were as foxy as a cat.
Ding Fan saw the two groups of things wrapped in the towel, and he strangled to death. He threw her underneath like a hungry tiger, but he couldn’t help but always couldn’t get up.Sweat and discouraged.
The girl covered her mouth, hey, hey, while still not forgetting that he was useless, he was even more anxious, he just got up and took a cold shower, trying to cool the hot body with cold water.
After he returned from the shower, he finally succeeded. The two almost tossed all night, but the next day Ding Fan decided to break up with the girl, because he did not see the legendary red, and the girl’s performance was not like the first time.
This made him very sad, feeling like an innocent boy being played with by an old river.
After breaking up with his second girlfriend, Ding Fan was very depressed, and even said such discouraging words as “I won’t fall in love anymore”.Colleagues laughed at him, where did this go? It ‘s like a little frustration. It should be more frustrated and more courageous. Besides, it ‘s only been a few years since the peach blossoms of this decade?
Ding Fan ignored everyone, Wu felt sad.
For a long time after that, Ding Fan was really honest and quiet a lot.
I haven’t seen him running away on both ends for three days, or listening to him constantly answering the phone, even coming to his girls, he is also polite to keep a distance with others, as if he has lost interest in all women.
He even picked up the book, preparing to seriously review the national judicial examination.
Colleagues couldn’t help but look at him. It seems that falling in love is not all bad. Some people sink in love, some people forge in love.
Ding Fan is ordinary, and he has a higher awareness.
Of course, he didn’t pass the judicial examination and didn’t even take it, because he talked to his girlfriend again after a few months of cessation.
This time, this is a teacher who teaches English with his family name.
Although he is not as beautiful as his two girlfriends, and he is not as good as the former, he is gentle and gentle and well-informed.
What made him even more relieved was that Xiao Si was still a virgin, and thinking of herself felt a little sorry for her.
“At first glance it looks like an orthodox girl, and I like it.
“Ding Fan said.
As soon as the words were spoken, it immediately caused a laugh, and some colleagues joked that you were the first to be deceived, so you feel guilty and want to find an honest person to get through.
Ding Fan gave the man a fist and solemnly told everyone that this time he must have taken it seriously.
Everyone felt that Xiao Si and Ding Fan were a good match.
Although the appearance is a bit worse, the temperament and personality are exactly complementary.
Xiao Si was very attentive and took care of Ding Fan’s diet and living carefully. In just two months, Ding Fan became blessed and gained several pounds.
He often caressed his uncle’s belly slowly, and pretended to be an annoyance: oops, what to do, there is a good wife at home, and it ‘s so good for me.
Hearing this, the male colleagues were anxious to give him a kick, this boy, who got cheap and sold well, showed off here.
Is this true love? When Ding Fan was living carefree under Xiao Si’s care, something unexpected happened to him suddenly.
He was at work that day and received a phone call from Xiao Si’s colleague, asking him to rush to the hospital. Xiao Si had an accident.
Ding Fan’s frightened legs were all soft. He grabbed the phone and ran, leaving a room of colleagues anxiously guessing what happened to Xiao Si.
The next day, Ding Fan asked the leader for leave, his tone was sad.
Everyone felt that something serious had happened.
On the third day, Ding Fan returned, his hair was messy, his eyes were bloodshot, and his expression was distressed.
After our questioning, he said something that scared everyone.
It turned out that Xiao Si was pregnant.
Because she had no experience with her first pregnancy and did not have a particularly obvious response, she was not attentive.
However, during the class that day, she suddenly had abdominal cramps and fainted on the podium, and then her lower body turned into reverse blood. The students in the room were frightened, and they tried their best to find the school teacher and leader. When they placed the hospital, their pupils were almost dilated.
Because the operation submission required the family members to sign, no one of the school teachers and leaders dared to write, so he called for Ding Fan.
After Ding Fan ran away, he saw Xiao Si’s face like white paper and dark purple lips. He had a terrible name in his heart. The pen in his hand seemed to be heavy and couldn’t write.
The simplest stroke he usually used was a period of time to stabilize the god before he wrote it down.
Fortunately, Xiao Si was finally pulled back from the death line after rescue.
The operation cost was nearly 10,000 yuan, and Ding Fan ran out of his pocket for only 6,000 yuan. His mother rushed over to give the hospital money, and also took care of the food of the prospective daughter-in-law.
The accident of Xiao Si dealt a heavy blow to Ding Fan.
He didn’t expect that his instantaneousness had brought her a fatal disaster, and his heart was filled with deep regret.
He vowed secretly that he must take good care of him, marry her when she recovered, and love her alone in this life.
Under the care of Ding Fan and his mother, Xiao Si recovered quickly and went to work after more than a month.
The doctor told Ding Fan that Xiaosi was a congenital fallopian tube insertion, and the same situation may occur in pregnancy. Therefore, do not be careless, and even prepare for pregnancy, you must scientifically conceive under the guidance of the hospital.As soon as Ding Fan fell into the abyss, he was just complaining. This gentle and kind person loves you the most and does not marry your house for delivery. Ding Fan plans to start the renovation and two people will get married after two months of airing.
However, on the issue of decoration, Xiao Si had differences with him.
Ding Fan pursues the view that “simple is beautiful”, suggesting that the room should be dominated by white, simple and elegant. Xiao Si, however, yearns for the idyllic style. He likes the checkered tablecloths, wooden furniture and floral wallpaper.
The two held their own grounds and refused to make concessions, which eventually turned into a quarrel.
In the end, both defeated, and both were very angry, and the house was renovated into a semi-pastoral and semi-simple style.
While discussing the marriage, Xiao Si’s mother made a compulsory request: the man’s family must give out a 66,666 yuan gift of money to discuss the success and success, and they all enjoyed it.set.
Xiao Si is notorious for the high cost of marriage. The women’s family often asks for money and things, and it’s never end without tossing the man’s family into trouble.
Ding Fan and his parents cannot accept this request.
Because at the time of the engagement, they bought 20,000 yuan worth of jewelry for Xiao Si, including nearly 50,000 yuan in gifts and gifts. Now they are getting more than 60,000 in marriage. They ca n’t afford it anyway.
But Xiao Si’s mother insisted on her own opinion and admitted that she would never marry a daughter unless she gave it.
This made Ding Fan close off the dilemma.
Little Division is the most contradictory among them.
The goal is that as the customs of the hometown improve, parents will never give in; Ding Fan’s realistic conditions can not afford so much money.
What makes Ding Fan even harder to resist is that Xiao Si’s mother even said some nonsense, taunting that his parents were incapable and couldn’t even marry a daughter-in-law, which made his parents very embarrassed., Can’t get off the stage for a long time.
Ding Fan suffered a heavy blow to his self-esteem. After the parents of both parties left, he severely gave a temper to Xiao Si and said a lot of rude things.
This time, both were sad.
The marriage was stranded. The brothers Ding Fan only spent 20,000 to 30,000 yuan on the family when they got married. The brother and sister-in-law already had a lot of opinions about Ding Fan’s engagement. The parents must not take out more than 60,000.It’s a dollar, and even if I give it, I won’t make it.
Ding Fan was unwilling to let her parents be so distressed for her own affairs. She had to do the ideological work of Xiao Si constantly, asking her parents to lower the standard.
However, the facts disappointed him. The attitude of Xiao Si ‘s parents was more and more determined day by day. They also blamed Ding Fan ‘s family for not being positive enough and treating the matter negatively.
The relationship between the two parties suddenly became tense.
Ding Fan’s parents saw that the situation was not good, and they wanted to condescend to go to their in-laws and discuss everything.
Ding Fan didn’t agree with life and death, believing that this would further promote their arrogance.
With regard to Ding Fan’s constant Cold War attitude, Xiao Si also became angry, often saying “I still don’t matter so much in your mind” and “You don’t love me so much” such negative words, making him even more upset.
After that, Ding Fan received a call from Xiao Si ‘s mother one day: Xiao Si had agreed to break up with you, and you have nothing to do with Xiao Si from today.
The simple Xiaosi wants to gradually stimulate Ding Fan and let him take the initiative to ease the tension with his parents.
However, to her disappointment, Ding Fan did not ask for their understanding, and did not explain. He directly said “I have no opinion” on the phone and hung up Xiao Si’s mother.
This time the little division was annoyed, so under a negative mood, the fake breakup became a real breakup.
A few months after the bland life broke up, Xiao Si married a ten-year-old man.
I heard from Xiao Si ‘s colleague that Xiao Si ‘s life was not happy. This made Ding Fan very distressed. He also blamed Xiao Si for his waywardness and anger. How can marriage be a drama?
He didn’t know if one day, Xiao Si would regret it, and Xiao Si’s mother thought that she had arbitrarily prevented her daughter’s marriage from regretting it.
To this day, his favorite is Xiao Si, and the one he can’t let go of is also Xiao Si.
Since then, he can no longer be enthusiastic about feelings. Looking at colleagues around him has long been paired or a family of three, he also has a negative thought. Since sooner or later, all those who want to get married are living, getting marriedWho isn’t married?
Ding Fan’s fourth girlfriend finally successfully upgraded to become his wife.
This twenty-two-year-old girl doesn’t have much requirements, as long as Ding Fan is good to her.
They had a relationship within a few days of each other. After that, the little girl gave herself her first crying and sadness for a while. Ding Fan calmly said to her, rest assured, I will marry you if you want.
Now, Ding Fan’s wife has been pregnant for more than three months. In his words, “I’m about to become a father.
“You can’t hear any joy in your words, just plain.
I advised him that life was the way it was.
He laughed and was speechless.
I still have no idea about Ding Fan who hastily chose to marry someone who does not understand. I don’t know if they can go through smoothly in the future, but what I tell him now is nothing but a wish. I hope that Ding Fan will be a good dad in the ordinary life.